The Widow’s Guide

Book Seven · Year Two · Chapter 6

Should I go back to work, or start something?

“I haven't worked in twenty years. Is it silly to think about a job now?”

The short answer

It isn't silly. Work can bring money, a shape to the week, or company, and it can also mean starting something of your own.

Before you take paid work while you receive Social Security, ask Social Security how your earnings would affect your benefits. There can be a limit, and it can come as a surprise.

This chapter explains how things usually work in the United States. It is not legal, tax or financial advice, and the rules where you live may differ. Before you act on anything here, check it with one of the people named at the end of the chapter.

What to do

  1. Write down why you want to work: money, structure or people.
  2. Ask Social Security how earnings would affect any benefits you receive.
  3. Tell Social Security what you expect to earn, if you receive benefits, and call again if that changes.
  4. Try a short or part-time version first.
  5. Ask a tax preparer about the new income.
  6. Visit an American Job Center, or call 1-877-US2-JOBS (1-877-872-5627), if you want help looking.
  7. Say no to any job that asks you to pay.

What can wait

Who can help

The rules, phone numbers and web addresses in this book were checked against the agencies’ own pages in October 2026. They change, so check anything you rely on with the office itself.

Cover of Year Two, Book 7 of The Widow’s Guide

From Book 7: Year Two

This page has the short answer and the closing lists from chapter 6. The full chapter explains, in plain words, what exists, what to ask, and who can answer. The book covers months 15 to 24.

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